There’s a book, Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus. It fragmentarily shows the difference of men and women. The Islander found some differences between men and women in various situations such as when they eat, fall in love and play. Also, The Islander added one more thing, things men and women do not understand about each other.
 
Different ideas when having meal

Women and men have different thinking when they have meals. Many people think that women spare room for dessert because women usually eat dessert after finishing a meal. I think that is due to delay in feeling full. Most men say, "I’mreallystuffed" when they feel full, whereas most women say that ’only’ when they are finished with the meal but still have room for dessert.

Women certainly prefer foods that look good compared tomen. Women feel that their appetites will be satisfied when they are served beautifully plated food. However, men thinkthetwothings –eye-appeal and flavor-areindependent. When they see beautifully plated foods, they only think of it as just food.

Women, who are sociable in whatever they do, take longer time to eat than men because, while eating meal, they love to talk.Women form a friendship in this way. They can speak in the restroom. Because men 'only' use the restroom for bodily functions, they neither look at each other nor talk to each other. However, women also use the restroom socially. Men never say "why don’t we go together to the restroom?"

By You Jung-Eun
 

When a man falls in love, and when a woman falls in love
 
If I speak in the emotion of love, the man is offensive, and the woman says to be defensive. The man always requests and the woman refuses, the man is bold and the woman is timid.

What will be the first thing that the man thinks about the woman when he falls in love?

‘Does she satisfy with me?' or ’ Will she love me?’

As to woman, she worries about that ‘Does the man really loves me?‘ , or ’Is it a lie?‘

Woman is suspicious because of the defensiveness.

So, to make him or her convinced about the love of the opponent in the love process, we have to use different ways.

Woman is convinced about the love through the expressions that man tells to her. Such as keep contacting, and telling her that he loves her. Also, woman feels more love when she thinks that she is being loved.

Besides, man tends to feel love when he offers something to women and do some efforts for women. So, girl should give boy chances to do something for her, and keep telling the man how much she feels thankfulness to him.

By Kang Yoon-Seo
 
 
Many differences between women and men when they play

There are many differences between women and men when it comes to leisure.

Females like chatting when they hang out with males. They talk about everything that happened to them and expect immediate responses from men. Most women always have various topics. But guys like focusing on the moment. They can't multitask.

Women want to plan everything when they hang out with men, but men want to decide on impulse or just follow women's decisions, because men consider scheduling as a burden for money and time.

Women like to go around many places and enjoy. They are more active. But men like staying in one place to fully enjoy the moment. They don't move on to something else easily. They do not quit easily. For example, when they start a new game, they keep playing it until others stop it. But women enjoy the short, exciting moment, because they easily get bored.

Women like participating on activities and they don't care about the game results. They enjoy playing because they value relationships. But men are more independent so they don't care about playing alone and they more focus on the game results.

By Kim Ha-Yeon
 

Men and Women, when they can’t understand each other

Like the thing that shown at the introduction, Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus. They think they are different in various things because they have difficulties in understanding each other.

That’s why they have many differences both Man and Woman. There are many cases, they don’t understand each other behavior. So now let’s talk about incomprehensible behavior of each other.

First, women said that they can’t understand behavior of men. For example, when they are not contacted because of computer game or make an idle boast in front of woman or when they smoke and Send a message ex-girlfriend and so on.

Men can’t understand this behavior. for example, take a picture about food, When they are on a diet but they have large food, After having a meal, they eat a dessert, They are going to the restroom with friend, Cut eyebrow for drawing a eyebrow.

By Lee Yu-Rae
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