These days, there is a common thing that Korean university students keep wondering. They want to know about themselves. After becoming an adult, they have difficulty realizing who they are. Even though their parents can give them the advice for that, it may be hard for them due to the lack of time to talk with their parents who are so busy in 21c. Instead, how about finding the answer by ourselves in daily life? It is because we cannot say about us without daily life. There are three tips I want to share with you.
First, look around you in the life. Normally, we tend to concentrate just on us. It can easily lead you to see the world narrowly. Just throw your narrow prejudice and consider everything which is related with you as the most important thing. The reason why I am asking you to follow this first step is because we are defined by numerous and different relationships in the world. Try to talk to your best friends or family about how you feel. As they know about you very well, they will let you think about yourself through the talk.
Second, read many books as much as you can. It is very true that most of the Korean students do not read many books. Rather, they are used to watching TV and having fun with smart-phones. Basically, books have so many benefits. As the subject of the books are different each other, the writers are also different and various. By reading many books, you can compare your opinions with theirs. It might be helpful because you can recognize yourselves accepting other different ideas and opinions.
Last, get accustomed with unfamiliar things. People usually hesitate to do the activities or jobs which they have not experienced before. Due to the lack of challenges, they sometimes get bored with the routine life. Furthermore, they may suffer from severe depression. However, the people who always want to do new things not only know about themselves very well, but also overcome any difficult problems easily. It is because they are already aware of who they are by challenging towards the difficult matters. The best way for you to mirror yourself is do the things which are hard to handle with.
In conclusion, even though it is hard to follow, these three tips can help you to live in your 20s. While reading this article, some of you may think that it is very an obvious fact. Yes. It can be found everywhere else. But, I would like to emphasize that it is very difficult to do straight away. So, the books telling us these kind of tips always tie up with the last common phrase. That is “Do it now!” Even though you know about how to do, just sitting on the chair without any actions will not make you go forward. Therefore, if you have decided to do anything motivated by this article, do not plan for it, but try it now!